My belief is this, many saintly men were lost to the commitment of marriage but many good men came from the decision. Unfortunately for them, their new path comes with different temptations in a more complicated life. Therefore, this event has lost many good men. Not saying by any means that I am a saint. For I get farther and farther from it every passing year. I had talked with Sophie about marriage in the three days we knew each other. She had wanted to stay in the states and needed a green card. I pondered it over in my mind for a great while. This was what I was looking for, a foreign girl who I can relate with all, except the atheist bit. It would have been nice if more time was spent inquiring about how she had this belief but said that she had Christian values. Maybe before I go off on this thought process with Harem7, I should at least find out what her faith is. This relationship is moving slowly and will continue to as long as I have anything to do about it.