You must forsake all, Father, Mother, wife, children, all family to know the CHRIST. For unless you are willing to forsake all you will never know the CHRIST. You will, rather, remain and be led by the blind even though you may have sight. For unless you yourself overcome the problem and or preoccupation and develop a clear mind and open heart you will be of no true nor good benefit to them. They shall call you selfish but it is they who are, for they desire you not to save yourself and, in their blindness, they do not see that when you are able then you may then be of true help and try to save them.