I let Mowad sleep out on the couch last night. He was to go home to see his wife and kids, maybe stay a couple of nights. He came back very late as i knew he would. At first i grabbed the sheets and pillow and went to the couch, then when he went out again i changed back. He has better access to his needs at night there and he is not continually waking me up along with Hyme at night. He does not have the “space” he says he needs to sprawl out but he has the television for his viewing pleasure. Maybe i was being selfish but when it comes to Mowad, as with many people now days, they need to be taught how to be polite. We have been serving self for so long and well that we have made ourselves so fragile that we are offended by anyone saying anything about us that we need to hear and at least consider.