You must not be ruled nor controlled by emotions.
Does this mean that you are not to be with a family of your own?
It would be easier to be without unless you are to find a devout wife/husband who is strong and is with you because you are with the eternal, unbegotten father spirit.
For emotions shall never keep a devoted servant from laying down his their life for another, thus one day willingly leaving family and all behind to serve the father spirit.
Emotion is not substitute for pure reason and complete knowledge illuminated by love.